The famous trainer and businessman never wanted to be a mother. She sparked a debate on the Internet when she openly admitted that she consciously chooses to live without children. His words received different responses. In the last interview, she returned to the topic of motherhood. “I knew that if I said that I decided to be childless and that it was my conscious choice, I would be ostracized,” admitted Eva Chodakowska.
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Eva Chodakovska does not want to become a mother. “I never woke up with this thought”
Eva ChodakovskaKnown in Poland as a popular fitness trainer and businessman, he has been inspiring Poles to live an active life and take care of their health for more than ten years. From January 3, viewers can follow his activities in the program “Together with Nova” on TVNwhere Joanna supports couples in crisis together with Krupa.
Personally, Eva has been happily married since 2013. is his favorite Lefteris Kavukis. They met in Greece, where Chodakovska lived for two years. The couple has been a harmonious duo for ten years. They often add to the overall staff.
The 41-year-old trainer openly expresses his beliefs and views, often dealing with life topics that different people have different views on. In a recent interview with Plejada, he spoke… Motherhood Both heroic and challenging, expressing admiration for women who choose to have children, while at the same time respecting the decisions of those who choose to. Life without children.
“I salute every woman who has consciously decided to do this. Motherhood is the most difficult of all roles. It is a 24-hour job, without breaks and without a schedule,” she emphasized.
Chodakovska looks tenderly at her sister's children. She appreciates being a loving aunt and enjoys spending time with Alex and Vanessa.
Although Eva herself never felt that motherhood was her destiny, she never ruled out the possibility. He was always open to what the future would bring.
“I never woke up thinking: I want to be a mother. I used to think that the day would come when I would want it and feel that it was my way. But it didn't happen,” he said.
When Eva shared her decision not to have one, she was met with backlash, including rude and unpleasant comments. He is criticized by people who do not know him. Many began to turn away from him.
I read that I am an unworthy and insufficient woman, I will die alone and never know what true love is. I will not even mention the insults and vulgar epithets that were thrown at me,” he said.
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Her public confession was a form of resistance to social pressures about motherhood and a response to repeated questions about it. In the past, he feared a lack of acceptance. Today, he talks about his emotions without a bush.
“It seemed like every time I said 'not yet,' people thought I was saying it because I couldn't get pregnant. I thought It's not fair to these women who really can't have children. If such a fate happened to me, of course, I would not hide that I was childless by my choice,” he explained.
In an interview, the star revealed that at the beginning of the relationship, she explained to her future husband that motherhood was not part of her life plan. The partner responded by asking for more time to think about the matter, noting that if Eva kept her opinion, they would probably be forced to end the relationship. When the topic of parenthood returned a few months later, Eva maintained her position.
“I told Lefteris that I haven't changed my mind, I still didn't want to have children and I couldn't. He admitted that he loved me more than the idea of having a family“He cannot imagine life without me and could not leave me,” said Chodakovska.
“And Years later, she admitted that she never really dreamed of having childrenBut he wanted to check if I wouldn't conform to his expectations and I don't want to become a mother,” she added.